When it comes to parenting, the old saying holds true, 'whatever you pay attention to, you get more of.' Children naturally crave connection, and your attention, whether warm praise or stern frustration, they just want to be noticed. When you catch your child being kind, sharing, or trying their best and you notice these moments and praise them, they will feel warm, fuzzy love that they have made you happy and want to do the same again. If you reinforce those actions they will want to repeat it over and over again. On the flip side, if negative behaviors are the primary triggers for big reactions, kids will unconsciously lean into those just to stay on your radar. By intentionally choosing to notice and celebrate the good, you build a positive cycle where your child feels seen for who they are at their best, making everyday parenting a whole lot brighter and more rewarding for both of you.

Our thought of the week is:

The more you study delight, the more delight there is to study.